I wrote her name and tied the string
In her room for the night.
"I will be sad if I don't see them".
I had a realization today when buying the supplies to make her Valentines cards. We needed 22 cards (some of her class mates will bring siblings to the party and kids from the Tuesday/Thursday class will also attend the party). Presley usually paints cards for birthday parties of her friends, but getting her to complete one can sometimes be a challenge. Knowing this I needed to find a easy way to make 22 cards.
I contemplated breaking down and buying her a Disney theme cards. I found 34 Princess cards (with glitter tattoos- seriously) for $6.00. I had never looked for these cards before and was shocked on how cheap they are... I asked myself, why don't I buy them? Why keep fighting it? I know to make the original 22 will cost me more money and time...
It hit me. Yes, "it's cheap today but what will it create?" She is not sophisticated enough to know that just because it's Princess Arial it doesn't make it better then something homemade or non brand... Especially in the case of food. I think it's offensive that so much money is spend on marketing food to kids rather then spend on the ingredients inside the food. She will then grow up thinking that brands are better (proven fact).
This topic comes up often (me not buying character stuff) at our home. I do feel sometimes I am depriving Presley, mostly when she is around kids who have that stuff. But then I take a step back, and see how much she loves her puppy Krypto and she doesn't know he's not "the real thing". The few character stuff she does have as gifts, she does like but not any more then her other toys and not more then Kyrpto.
In college I learned about a term, "planned adolescents" a tactic aimed at adults (savvy shoppers right?). If I remember correctly it's a term first used in the appliance industry, but pretty much works for anything. A hit car comes out, the Ford Expedition in 2005 (I'm just throwing out dates). Everyone buys one including yourself, you love it your happy you have the hottest car on the block... Then 2007 rolls around with a new body style, just enough to make it noticeable that your car is no longer the hottest car out there. And you now find yourself wanting, that newest hottest car out there... The cycle begins again...
OK, only I could turn making Valentines cards into a lesson on marketing... After this internal conversation with myself, Presley and I made her cards. I decided to go with only glittery stickers to decorate (after half the glitter was spilled). She was pleased to do them herself and I was able to step back after showing her how to take off the paper backing.
A small fight won, many more to come.
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